Tuesday, September 20, 2011

KATE LYDIA GEDDES

We are so excited to welcome Kate into our family.
She was born Friday, September 16th 2011 at 5:07pm
She weighs 6lbs 6oz (2.89kg) and is 19 inches long (48.26cm)
Such a tiny little girl :)

Her labor and delivery was so completely different from Lukes.
For various reasons, I chose to have an induction.
We arrived at the hospital Friday morning at around 7:30am.
I was checked in and taken up to labor and delivery, where they started doing blood work on me and setting up IV lines for the induction.
At 8:50am, they started me on a low dose of pitocin. For the first couple hours, I felt little more than some mild cramping. I was fairly comfortable, and spent my time between the bed and bouncing on a birthing ball. During this time, I also had my epidural catheter placed, so that it would be ready for later in the day when I felt I needed the pain relief. I do love modern medicine :)
My OB, Dr Chandler then came in and broke my waters and my nurse, Amy (what a great nurse to have for the day) increased my pitocin. It was after this that things really started to get going... contractions started to get much harder, and stronger and things were really moving along.
Eventually, I decided I was ready for the epidural to be switched on. It was only suppose to take about 15 minutes to kick in, but an hour later I was still in a large amount of pain. I also had a spot in my lower right side, that didn't take to the epidural, and I was feeling contractions really hard there. They were coming fast and lasting long. The anesthesiologist came back and gave an additional shot into my epidural to see if it would get it working. I finally started to feel my legs etc going dead. My left side went solidly dead, while my right side remained just tingly, and the spot that never took to the epidural still remained mostly unaffected until about an hour before I began pushing. (Fortunately, being a second time labor, I was able to visualise in my mind how I needed to push, so I was able to push effectively despite the still very strong numbness.)
By 1:30pm I was 7cm dilated, and by about 3:00pm I was 10cm and ready to deliver little Kate.
However, Dr Chandler had just been called away to an emergency C-section, so Amy said to just let the contractions continue to push Kate lower down. She finally came back about 2hrs later and got me to do a couple practice pushes to make sure I could do it despite the numbness and then at around 5:00pm Dr Chandler made it back to 'catch Kate'... we got ready and positioned and in not even 2 full pushes she was out. I literally could have sneezed her out. LOL... over 2hrs of being fully dilated and just waiting, definitely got her good and low and ready to be born.
I didn't break a sweat. LOL...and even better, was the 'no tears, no stitches'... sure makes for a faster recovery :)

I couldn't believe how small she is... even after she was born, I was convinced that she'd still be over 7lbs... to my complete surprise she weighed not even 6 and a half pounds... what a tiny little girl :)
She lay on my chest, and stared up at me, looking straight at my face and not making a sound.

The whole day was so much less stressful than Luke's delivery.
Jake spent a large part of the day with his nose in a book, and my mom who was able to be there too, played the role of 'labor and delivery reporter' keeping, friends and family worldwide updated with frequent Facebook reports. LOL


Unlike Lukes delivery, where they took him away almost immediately for his brief stay in the NICU, we were able to spend time with Kate in the labor and delivery room. We all had a chance to hold her, and take pics, and I was even able to try nursing her right there, while she was still alert and awake. It was a great experience.
After a nasty bout of nausea and sickness, between contractions, waiting for the epidural to kick in.






Watching her daddy with big eyes.
A happy and proud daddy :)
So alert.. taking in all of her new surroundings
Bonding time with mommy







Later that night, when she was back from the nursery and all cleaned up, my sweet friend Tricia who kept Luke for the day, came to the hospital with Luke so that he could meet his new little sister. I wasn't sure how it was going to go. Aside from his early morning, napless, long day and late night the day of her birth, Luke also hadn't showed too many promising signs of adjusting well to Kate before she was born. His first meeting with her though, went GREAT... what a sweet big brother.
The first thing he did, which made us all laugh was 'sniff' her. Luke likes to sniff anything questionable, to determine if he's going to like it.. from new foods, to new objects to his little sister. LOL. Apparently she passed the sniff test.
He came and sat next to me on the bed, and we let him hold her. He was so gentle, and held her really well. He pointed to all of her features.. nose, eyes, mouth, ears etc, asking what each was... he kissed her head, and then when he'd had enough, he lifted her up, and moved her over to my lap. LOL.. and then he started investigating the hospital room full of things to get into. All in all I'd say it was a VERY successful first meeting for Luke and his little sister.
(The best of the pics of Luke with Kate I can't post because Jake forgot to change the settings on the camera so they came out horribly blurry, so unfortunately this is about all we got)




My hospital stay was less than restful, which I expected, but the staff were great. I had a wonderful labor and delivery nurse, and I was really glad to have my primary OB deliver Kate, rather than just whoever was on call. I stayed until Kate was 24hrs old, and was then discharged so that we could spend Sunday at home as a family before Jake started another work week.

Kates labor and delivery was a GREAT experience, and my only complaint was the one spot where the epidural failed to work... but I guess I can't have everything perfect. LOL

She has so far been a great baby. She's calm, and quiet and seems to be pretty easy going. Whether or not she'll stay this way, we will only know in time, but for right now at least, she is being really easy on us, and we are loving having her as a new addition to our family.

I am so grateful for my family of FOUR. Each member adds something special to our family and we wouldn't be complete without every person, with every quirk and every sweet face.

Friday, September 9, 2011

TICK TOCK


I'm 38 weeks 1 day... and impatiently awaiting Kates arrival. LOL.
This last stretch is really such a drag.
It's been an eventful, scatter brained week, but a fun one. I have the mental capacity of a stoned goldfish at the moment... I can't even focus on my own thoughts half the time, let alone remember anything, or try to productively get through a day with my brain remaining alert and functional. LOL.. this is definitely a far worse case of 'pregnant brain' than I remember having with Luke.

'Gogga' arrived on Monday... thought this day would never come. It's the first time I've had any of my family visit us in the USA, and it was quite exciting to finally have it happen.
Since then, we've been running last minute errands, catching up on laughs, and getting ready for little Miss Kate to arrive... I've been putting my new 'Gogga appliance' to good use, lol... she cooks, and cleans and entertains my 2 year old... a highly recommended 'investment' for scatter brained pregnant mommies. LOL

Tuesday was another OB appt, and I'm hoping it was my last one (my next one is scheduled for this coming Monday)
At my appointment on Tuesday, I was 75% effaced and almost 3cm dilated...
So it's all just a waiting game now... TICK TOCK, TICK TOCK...

Friday, September 2, 2011

FULL TERM

Today I am 37 weeks 1 day... official full term, and little miss Kate can grace us with her presence whenever she wants to.
Went to see my OB today to check on her... fiesty little thing was super active while Dr Chandler was trying to listen to her heartbeat. My belly was jumping all over the place and she had her heart beat racing well up into the 160's.
I'm 2cm dilated and 40-50% effaced. It's about the same progress I had made with Luke, so perhaps Kate will come around the same time as him (I was 38weeks 6 days with Luke)
I feel like I've been pregnant FOREVER with Kate.. probably because I've been pregnant the entire calendar year of 2011.
I'm ready to give her an eviction notice, and get on with the next stage.
Hopefully not much longer :)

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

THE NURSERY

 Kate's nursery is pretty much done.
I'd LOVE to get a big shaggy, cream area rug for the floor, because it's a big room, and doesn't have any carpeting, but that'll have to wait until another time...
In the mean time, this is the nursery for our little girl!
Now all we need is our little miss Kate to fill it :)

The wall stickers, I got from a friend. I traded some baby equipment I no longer needed for the stickers :)
Kate's name, I bought plain letters from Michaels Craft store, and then used mod podge to put scrapbooking paper over the letters in the colours and patterns I wanted. Hung ribbon on the back and put them on some nails in the wall.
The linen is a LONG story... this is our 2nd set like this, and our 3rd set altogether. LOL (don't worry, we only paid for 1 set)
And everything else is re-used from Lukes nursery.






Wednesday, August 24, 2011

LET'S COMPARE


The last picture I took pregnant with Luke was 'today'... 35 weeks 6 days
I thought it would be fun to compare how much bigger or smaller I am this time round.

I at first thought I was quite a bit smaller with Kate, but now looking at the pics, I'm wondering if maybe I just got used to the 'pregnant' size, cos this isn't my first baby. LOL...
Cos I'm not seeing a very big difference if any... and I definitely have a little more 'grip' around my waist with Kate than with Luke. LOL...

What do you think?




"THANK YOU"

Luke still has very few words, but his most frequently used phrase (along with 'No') and definitely one of his clearest pronounced words/phrases is 'Thank You'...

A while ago we decided that if he wasn't going to use words to tell us what he wants, that he needs to at least say Please and Thank You when we do give him what he wants (after a tedious guessing game to figure out what it is that he wants)

He is still a tantruming, demanding toddler, but he is a very polite one at that, and I never get tired of hearing his sweet little 'Thank you'...

He says it in this long winded kinda way, 'aaaank yooou' and I just love it.

This morning I just wanted to kiss his cheeky little face to bits...
He woke up at about 6am, kinda crying and whining like he does if he wakes up in the night...
He was groggy, and sleepy still. I tucked him back in and then realised that his sippy cup was empty, so I quickly went to get him some more water.
When I went back into the room and handed it to him, through his groggy eyes, he looked up and me and said a sleepy, but so sweet, 'aaaank yooou'... LOL.. I just wanted to eat him up... he even has his manners in his sleep :)

Something else that he has started doing too, is he'll say thank you over and over again, until you acknowledge his 'gratitude' by saying, 'You're welcome'. LOL... There have been a few times where in a rush I'll get what he needs/wants, and then dart off... and about 5 aaank yooou's later, I realise that I have my little monkey tight at my heels following me and waiting for me to say, 'you're welcome'

Last night we went to the grocery store, and in the car, Luke started pointing to the center console and repeatedly saying 'thank you'... it was his way of asking for the candy that he knows we keep in the console. LOL... I guess he knows that if he is polite and cute about it, that we'll give him some... and he was right. LOL

I love my sweet little boy, and the cute things that he does